Often
it comes down to us not understanding how our brains work, and how to
help them work better, so we're often left at the mercy of a mental
program that runs for a positive reason, but with a negative effect.
I believe that all such programs, from smoking to phobias, to anxiety
disorders, to confidence issues can all be changed. The problem is that for 99% of the time the human race has existed
we lived a Stone Age existence where 'harm' was obvious and physical.
Our nervous system (mediated by the unconscious) is geared to protect
us from sabre-toothed tigers, not modern stresses. If any aspect of modern life is viewed by the unconscious as
stressful it treats it like a threat (the tiger) and the fight or
flight response is triggered to get you away from it. So, for example,
going to pieces in an interview is actually the struggle between your
unconscious trying to get you away from that situation and your
conscious fighting to stay put. You can see why a basic assumption we
use is "all behaviour has a purpose"; even when that behaviour is
having a negative effect it has a positive intention behind it. When
the fight or flight response is triggered your body is flooded with
hormones that perform certain functions, like increasing respiration,
body temperature and moving blood to the muscles from any area of the
body that isn't involved in fighting for survival. That accounts for
the butterflies in the stomach. It also takes blood from the brain
because you don't need to think to fight or run away. So you can
basically think or feel, but not both at the same time. The moment the
feeling of anxiety or nervousness reaches a certain level you become
physically less able to think - that is why your mind goes blank and
you struggle to put together a sentence. But boy could you run from a
tiger!
Releasing
negative thought patterns and replacing them with positive ones,
creates the conditions necessary to re-build your health. On its own
NLP can
provide a potent means for personal change. Incorporated within
Cognitive Hypnotherapy it provides a cutting edge approach to modern
therapy that can provide positive change quickly and permanently.
This model of mental functioning can be used to explain the basis of
many problems. Even smoking. If you had an experience when you were
younger that led your unconscious to believe that smoking was a good
thing (like it made you feel like you 'belonged' or you were a rebel), then it will
continue to motivate you to crave cigarettes, no matter how much you
consciously wish to stop. Call me on 01895 274 506 or 07941 638 416
email me: mail@chriscalloway.co.uk